I have some undeveloped thoughts today that I will proceed to write. When I say, Undeveloped thoughts, I mean those thoughts that I think I have not thought them through. They are thoughts of the budding stage. You need to think it through, develop them into a fully sound logically approved sort of observation, connect two three more thoughts to it and then make it a complete answer to a question. That is how you create a philosophical proposition.
First of all, I think it is always better to write when you have nothing to write because when you have something to write, it is like you already have the destination and path and you booked an uber to go there and there is no fun left. But when you have nothing to write, you improvise. You write things that are hidden in your sub-conscious. Something like, when you mediate and after half an hour, all conscious thoughts go away and then comes your darkness. Your unconscious talking to you, the inner chat begins, and all that trash comes out. It is sort of like; you don't know where you have to go but you start walking and then you reach somewhere.
1. Yesterday, what happened that a fellow friend messaged me saying, he had the most fun reading my yesterday's blog. He laughed his ass off. He shared it with his friends. Apparently, this guy used to flex in front of his friends that he is friends with such an intellectual and Galich guy like me😂. Funny, isn't it?
And some more people called and thanked me that yesterday's blog made their day. I was wondering "bhai, Gaali galoch hi toh kiya hai, isme din kaise ban jaa rha hai logon ka?😅" and then I got my answer. That dude, people did not expect something like this and comedy when unexpected becomes funnier.
Then in the evening, one of my friends' complaints that he did not like my today's write up. So, yes, this is the whole circle. This guy used to like all sober written write ups, which I intended to write as serious work. Other people might not even read my sober works, I mean, they are boring so...not their fault😂😅.
I mean, I have nothing in my defense. I know he is going to read this as well. I think I wrote it because, I have a dark side that hates things, and it comes up whenever I do not have anything particular to write. Also, this side is extremely funny. Witty and all. You know dark sides are always funny. They are charming. Morally Highground is very unfunny. You know, you might have seen, people in parties who just stand there still because, they don't drink, they don't flirt with women, they don't dance. People who talk only sober shit are like them. No fun.
I am a philosopher and a writer (both wannabes, I mean, I am not established), and one of my areas of expertise is surely fun and jokes. And in my moral compass, there is no moral compass. I like Gaalis, however misogynistic they are. They are part of us. Just like there are red light areas in cities, where no Sharif insaan goes, but all of them secretly wish to fuck. Similarly, There are Gaalis, red light areas of language, Sharif insaan do not wish to give gaalis, but secretly there is a pleasure in giving gaalis.
as a writer, who will write about these marginalized sections of language.
2. Coming to some more serious thoughts, I think self-awareness is the concept this generation has stressed upon so much. That is the reason why people who try to be morally upright, does not feel good to us. I particularly start disliking when they start projecting their moral compass on me. You know, this generation of ours, knows their vices. Nobody wishes to improve because we think we are that. This is our identity.
So, anyone who owns his vices is considered a good person. So, the definition of a good person is not today someone who does good things. It is twisted. It is that bad person, who is self-aware. Who owns that he has vices. He is the most charming. He will have most of the women. I mean, if any ladies read this shit, Take it as, She will have most of the men. There is no gender bias here girls. 😅 Of course, it has limits. Some vices in this generation are also unforgiveable. Like you have raped a minor, say. Now, any amount of self-awareness cannot redeem you. But yeah, something to think about. Do we as a society have stopped pretending to move towards moral Highground? I mean, I do not have particularly a problem with that. I myself am not a fan of morality. I think Moral people are those losers who compensate for their incompetitiveness with their morality. Like, some guy will say, oh I don't know how to flirt with a girl but I am a very good person, so better love me girl. I mean, what the fuck? you do not know a skill, a life skill and you are saying you are a good person? I mean, who isn't? Everyone is a good person? I mean, I stand corrected. I think, everyone is a bad person but with a story to explain their behavior. So, better learn flirting dude! this uncle behavior will not get you bitches.
3. Most serious thought that I got yesterday, You know why Divorce is so hard in India to get? The answer might shock you. It is not just oh! Divorce is seen as a stigma and women are told they cannot end this marriage. Or Women have no agency in any Indian marriage. It is not that.
So, I was talking to some women, My aunties, I mean, they will qualify as a woman, right? So, they told me Divorce is not easy because it is so costly. And while they were talking, my key takeaways from their discussion were:
a) Costly divorce
b) Laws are biased towards women. Like they said, it is unfair for men and shit.
c) Also social stigma they mentioned, all that religious crap, Shaadi pavitra rishta bandan.
So, My understanding is that, This is what Gayatri Spivak meant when she said, No the Sub-altern cannot speak. See, what they are saying. This is what semi-literate uncles say about Divorce. This seems like they have not even thought about it from a woman's perspective. What is the difference between views of a patriarchal woman and a patriarchal man? Nothing, A patriarchal woman has no individuality of her own. Wo kaise apna point of view rakhegi. She is rendered mute by the inaccessbility to knowledge of freedom and freedom of knowledge. Usko padhaya nahi, kabhi aazadi se jeene nahi diya, aur ab tum usse views puch rhe ho. Wo kya bolegi bhai? Wahi na, jo mard sunna chahte hain.
Maa ki chut mardo ki. Sorry guys, Sometimes, I feel I have to give gaalis to you because otherwise I will write something in theory, my serious work, something more toxic. Wo zyada chhubhega, so be happy, Gaali deke reh gaya.
So, yeah, that was my point. I got a live demonstration yesterday, how a woman speaks when she has no voice of her own. All of you proud sons and brothers think, My mother is saying something, oh my sister is saying something. Unfortunately, most of them are parrots, repeating what their master males have told them.
On the other hand, that obnoxious girl that is too modern according to you, who can shatter your manliness through her one insult, that who you think is a hoe, that you think has slept with every other man, she actually has her own views. She is actually a little empowered.
4. Also, I think empowerment is directly proportional to the number of people you have slept with. I have observed the difference between my own views before and after I got laid. There is some connection of sex with maturity. You know, you start understanding your hidden animalistic urges. You understand, most of the time, when you feel anxious, when you feel frustrated, it is just misplaced desire to sleep with someone. And there is nothing wrong with that. Post sex you understand that the root cause of your problems is not anyone else but you. Sex is like Therapy. But most of the people, both men and women, do have access to it. They keep juggling with their problems. They will never realize that what they want is actually sex. Ask really to yourself, do you really need a job? or you need a blow job? Your struggle to get a job is actually a struggle to get the latter. Be honest with yourself.
So, yeah, these were some bunch of undeveloped thoughts. Some day, these examples, these metaphors, you might find in a well carved theory. Also, someone reading this, If you find something wrong with my writeup, Check if something is wrong within you. Don't tell me how I should write. I will write whatever I feel like. Anyways, I hide these one day after writing so...
Also, if you really like these kind of writings, Dude! you need therapy. Why do you like this shit? Read my serious stuff. There is something intellectual going on there.
Rest, I will try tomorrow to come up with something. Otherwise, we will just talk like usual.
Have good day folks.
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