Who will you love? Me? Yourself? The God? Whatever you call love, if you really want to love, leave that immediately!
What do you think Love is? Love is not hating! That is all there is to love. How can you love someone? You love someone in affirmation. What you want to do in love is to increase the dopamine levels of the other person, to decrease the cortisol, to release endorphins. That is all that you do when you love.
Your love is violent. Your love destabilizes yourself and the other person. You say this is how a lover should be? A giver? What will you give her? an early heart attack? Your love is abnormal because you are abnormal. Your society is abnormal, and your morality is abnormal. Your expressions are abnormal.
Whosoever you find attractive is only based on which sense organ she pleases yours. Someone pleases your ears. Someone pleases your eyes. Someone pleases your sex organs. Your love is an animal's love. Your philosophy of love is how much happiness, excitement, butterflies in the stomach, sensory pleasures can I suck out of that other person? How much can I arouse my feelings and the other person's feelings.
But The reality is this is hatred at its purest. Trying to arouse feelings, any number of feelings of others or you is actually self-harm. It is suicidal. Because human body is on a self-destruct sequence. If you give x amount of dopamine to it for y amount of happiness, Next time, for the same y amount of happiness, you might need 2x amount of dopamine release. You are increasing the expectations of the other person.
The world is like a neuroscientist's lab where everyone is a lab rat and has electrodes attached to his brain. Each rod can be stimulated by every other rat present there. And this led to death, depression, anxiety, sadness, schizophrenia.
So, please have some mercy on the woman you love. Do not try to love her. Just do not try to hate. This is the most you can and the best you can love. Not hatred is the only and the purest form of love.
Have some mercy, if you wish, on yourself also. Do not run for dopamine. Do not run for happiness. Anyone who is running for happiness in life is actually wishing inside a lot of sadness. Sadness that will come from the failed expectations of happiness. Every time your glands will demand more dopamine. Just think, how will you be able to continuously supply so much of it with the limited nature of worldly things available to you.
It's time to end the lunatic cycle. To come out of the madhouse. To get released from the mental asylum called the world. Close your eyes. Breathe and feel how living feels like without any excitement, without any drama.
That is all there is to life. and believe me, it is more than enough. Life is enough for anyone who does not want to hate. But it will never be enough for someone who wants to love and love and love. You cannot love. Understand it. Only love possible is "non-hatred".
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